Tuesday, May 29, 2007

Changes for the Elusive Giant

Valenti International, ironically is perhaps best known for invisibility and privacy; the organization has recently made remarkable accommodations to serve those interested in the service.

While the worldwide headquarters continues to serve as the hub for all centralized operations, the company has acquired executive properties and suites across the world for confidential consultations. In the past those interested in this most exclusive of matchmaking services needed to travel to the Southern California estate for a consultation. This bold acquisition of new private meeting suites allows for confidential interviews in cities/destinations like Florence, London, New York, Naples, and of course Southern California. Those interested in the service reserve the executive space well in advance. A company representative will then meet the individual for a confidential consultation. The suites are not staffed offices, rather they are exquisite and elegant spaces designed for privacy.

The president and founder of Valenti International reported, “while it’s true that we attract a range of clients, most are quite successful and busy. The expense of traveling to our office in California is usually not an issue, it is the expense of time that our potential clients can not afford. We hope our new suites designed simply for the purpose of consultation, makes the process more time considerate.”

Unfamiliar with the organization?

Valenti International stands alone in quality and professionalism; matchmaking is moved both forward and backwards in time, integrating qualities of heritage and family with the professionalism of a team of licensed doctors to assist in the pairing of individuals—suitability of the match is determined by the team. “Sometimes what is wanted versus what is needed is curiously juxtaposed,” argues chief psychologist Dr. Jason Camu.
Modeled after an old European village paradigm, with a wise matriarch who knows all including familial expectation and culture, people are privately introduced to one another to fall in love. Irene Valenti, the founder and president offered this sobering statement:
“Sadly people sometimes forget their real worth and subject themselves to the humiliation of meeting a stranger, ultimately to be hurt. We try and capture the magic of romance, yet apply realism including assessment of character, culture, family, and lifestyle. Dreams of tall, dark, and handsome are balanced with the essential, for example a person’s readiness to make a commitment. Services always overlook the basic and instead promise fantasy, playing on people’s insecurities—this is terrible. Of all we try to do to fill a wish list, perhaps most importantly we attend to basic values and the core qualities of the person.”
The international organization is known as much as a powerful and unique consulting company as it is for romance, matchmaking, and confidentiality. Amongst those who know of Valenti International, it is held as the organization to the stars, celebrities, and world’s elite. In a volatile emotional business and practice which naturally involves intense feelings, and even when under attack, the organization consistently rises above the media to protect their client’s privacy and personal lives with integrity and moral and ethical responsibility—an impressive feat.

Dr. Jason N. Camu, Chief Psychologist, Valenti International

A common question asked of Chief Psychologist Dr. Jason Camu is, “what sort of guarantee does Valenti International offer?”

Forming a romantic relationship is potentially one of the greatest experiences in one’s life. However, the fantasy of a dream partner must also be reconciled with the basic reality that finding, selecting, and courting that person is inherently challenging. A promise or guarantee of a romantic outcome trivializes how difficult it may be to select the right partner. As an ethically responsible organization Valenti International would never make such a claim or promise. Rather, the organization strives to work diligently with their clients to reach a collaborative goal of a romantic union.

Promises of romance or matching often play on fantasy and wishes. Clients may be led to believe that because a service is involved they can merely check boxes and order a partner like a commodity; often what is missing is the basic realization that the person they have selected (from a dream) must select them in return. What becomes evident is that the reality of a relationship is lost in the promising glow of romance. Conversely, Valenti international makes no promise or guarantee of romance or success. Rather the organization makes a concerted and sincere effort to select a suitable partner.

Of course, psychological sciences are profoundly limited when considering the millions of variables that constitute human character and personality. Thus, services making promises are simply playing on fantasy. We make no assurances or guarantees, except that the team with the best of intentions will try to help our clients achieve the romance they want.

Dr. Jason N. Camu, Chief Psychologist, Valenti International